What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
16.06.2025 02:44
Any that are a turn off?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Why did my ex replace me so fast?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
What are the best mattress options for a comfortable night's sleep in Pompano Beach?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Has any man licked his wife's vagina while another man had sex with her?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Is having white skin really that attractive?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Kate Middleton and Princess Charlotte Opt for Aquamarine for Trooping the Colour 2025 - Vogue
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Homophobia is clearly a harmful mental sickness. What can LGBT people do to cure it?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
*** Questions About Me ***
Do you like wearing short skirts?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
What is it like to be the slave in a mistress-slave relationship?
29- How superstitious are you?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
If yes, what?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
39~ What are your love languages?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
52~ What are your hobbies?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
If you win, what will you make them do?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Would you read them together?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Please share Did you stop?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
Nothing too Serious
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Any that are a turn off?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
What is your favorite position? Why?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
*** Random Questions ***
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
How old are you? Male or Female?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?